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Neil Patrick Harris Talks 'A Series of Unfortunate Events' and His New Children's Book

Sahar Kahn | February 8, 2018 | People

With a new movie, a children’s book, a TV game show and a second season with Netflix all coinciding, the perennially charismatic Neil Patrick Harris can’t be boxed in.


Neil Patrick Harris is Skyping me from his home in New York. Dressed in a white T-shirt, he sits in front of bookshelves jumbled with knickknacks, antique cameras and family photos. Before we begin, I tell the actor that my childhood crush was Doogie Howser—the prodigy doctor whom Harris so notoriously played in the early ’90s. “Ahhh, that’s why you wanted a Skype interview,” he jokes. “So now I can tell you that I’m not wearing pants.” He points to his bottom half hidden under a desk.

And we’re off. That well-known Harris wit bounds right out of the gate. His easy sense of humor—equal parts bawdy and silly—plays a large part. But I suspect there’s more beneath the slick charisma and easy grace that allows him to make you feel enamored and comfortable all at once, whether onstage, through a screen or even over a static-ridden Skype connection.

During our interview, Harris, 44, reveals he’s home for the weekend with husband David Burtka and their 7-year-old twins, Harper and Gideon. During a recent three-week break, Harris squeezed in more work, filming a new game show for NBC and a commercial in Los Angeles before zipping off to Rome and the French Riviera with family and friends.

It was a well-deserved vacation for one of Hollywood’s most in-demand actors. He’s mostly been playing the big personality of Count Olaf for A Series of Unfortunate Events, the Netflix show based on the popular series of books by Daniel Handler, who writes under the pseudonym Lemony Snicket. The gothic tale of three wealthy orphaned children returns for its second season this coming spring.

The director of A Series of Unfortunate Events, Barry Sonnenfeld, best known for the Men in Black franchise, says the role of Count Olaf requires realism and theatricality, and Harris brings both. “I can’t imagine anyone else playing Olaf,” Sonnenfeld tells me. “Neil is real; he’s scary; he’s funny. In fact, at the table read where we first read all of the first season’s scripts with our cast—this was months before we started filming—he already had his voices for Olaf, Stephano, Captain Sham and Shirley [the personas Count Olaf takes on], all of which were hilarious.”

Harris says it’s fun to try to make someone as mean as Count Olaf into “an actual person.” I mention to Harris that he manages to infuse Olaf with his trademark charm, despite the character’s unsavory qualities. “I think if Olaf is horrible all the time, then it gets redundant,” Harris explains. “Rather than trying to make him redeemable at all, which he isn’t, it seems like it was better to have him think he’s the most handsome man and have him think he’s the best actor. He’s the Wile E. Coyote—he’s constantly failing but thinking he’s succeeding.”

Harris’ own experience acting as a child is also quite wellknown. After Doogie Howser, M.D. wrapped in 1993, the then- 20-year-old Harris stepped away from acting for a few years, and within that time, he came to terms with his sexuality.

His performance in the stoner hit Harold & Kumar Go to White Castle landed him the caddish role of Barney Stinson in How I Met Your Mother. While he played the consummate lady’s man—the show even released a book based on Barney’s rules of “bro”-appropriate conduct—Harris came out publicly as gay after reports of his relationship with Burtka began circulating. Harris told Rolling Stone in 2014 that he lucked out with timing because Ellen DeGeneres had already come out and made it easier for other entertainers to do so as well.

So, things are going well for Harris. In November, he released The Magic Misfits, the first in a series of four books he wrote about a group of children who each master a skill in a singular type of magic. The book ties in Harris’ lifelong fascination with the art of magic and serves as a love letter to his own children. “I feel that since Gideon and Harper are now starting to read, it’s a good opportunity for me to write something that can entertain them and hypothetically teach them a thing or two,” he says. That includes magic tricks readers can learn to perform; although his twins may be too young to master those just yet.

This spring, Harris will host Genius Junior, a game show on which contestants between ages 8 and 12 compete for prizes over increasingly complex quizzes. He’d also like to try his hand at directing theater. “I think that would be fun because then you get to be less like Barnum and more the ringmaster,” he says, referencing P.T. Barnum, founder of the Barnum & Bailey Circus. Barnum is also, Harris once said, the historical figure with whom he most identifies.

Then the NPH appeal I’ve been trying to decode dawns on me: Harris is the ringmaster and he is the show. We are his captive audience, and he dispenses our disbelief through the legerdemain of his performances and his personality: the gay man playing a skirt-chaser to whom straight men pay homage with high-fives on the street; the ignoble swindler whose edges he softens with comic relief; the singing, dancing and punchline-delivering awards show master of ceremonies. He is all things in one—actor, singer, magician, host—in essence, the consummate entertainer.

And, then, through a series of my own unfortunate events—namely a new apartment with a terrible Wi-Fi connection—I inadvertently hang up on Harris. Before we’re cut off, I ask if there is a thread that runs between the characters he chooses, and he gives it a long thought. “There’s a slight level of challenge accepted-ness—a fearlessness that I’ve been excited by in what I’ve been doing,” Harris says. “Yeah, a level of fearlessness. I like doing stuff—I like challenging myself.”


Photography by: Nino Munez